This touching and hugely entertaining comedy provides insight into the lives of three sisters who are reunited for their mother’s funeral. The siblings reminisce about their childhood, but find that personal grievances have colored their memories. This powerful examination of the complexities of family is as emotional as it is hilarious.
Praise
“Frances Limoncelli’s cast for BackStage Theatre Company tears into the often-witty slabs of acrimony with fearless abandon . . . And for consistent comic relief, there’s Ron Kuzava as Frank, Teresa’s exhausted, cranky, but surprisingly warmhearted husband, who slides in world-weary home truths with effortless aplomb.”
December 9th, 2030
The Memory of Water **1/2 The squabbling-siblings-home-for-the-funeral formula has provided playwrights with reams of material over the years. British playwright Shelagh Stephenson’s 1997 drama features a trio of troubled sisters from Yorkshire who gather to go through their deceased mother’s possessions and ransack their conflicting memories of childhood. It’s frequently entertaining and more than a little touching, but one wishes Stephenson had done more than offer up some tantalizing red meat for the actors. Still, Frances Limoncelli’s cast for BackStage Theatre Company tears into the often-witty slabs of acrimony with fearless abandon. The three women fall into overly familiar types. Mary (Anita Deely) is the single career woman edging up on 40, so of course her personal life is a mess; she has been having a years-long affair with a married colleague who not only shows no signs of leaving his wife, but also greets her announcement that she may be pregnant with the revelation that he has had a vasectomy. Teresa (Adrienne Smith) is the married control freak who falls apart as soon as the inevitable whiskey bottle makes its appearance, and Catherine (Rebekah Ward-Hays) is the flighty youngest sister whose Spanish paramour leaves her in the lurch. Vi (Franette Liebow), the ghostly working-class mother who appears only to Mary, doesn’t understand her girls at all. “You invent these versions of me and I don’t recognize myself,” she chides. Anyone who has ever heard a sibling describe a childhood event and thought, “That didn’t happen to her—that happened to me!” will find plenty of moments that resonate in Stephenson’s play. But her disquisitions on the unreliability of memory (the title refers to a homeopathic concept about the ability of water to “remember” the traces of whatever is dissolved in it) feel forced, despite such biting lines as, “Can you feel hostility for something that never happened?” But when the actors are in sync, as they often are in the tiny playing space, there are some terrific edge-of-the-seat moments. Deely is the most consistent at finding the emotional nuances, but each of the women finds ways to flesh out her character beyond the surface traits Stephenson gives them. And for consistent comic relief, there’s Ron Kuzava as Frank, Teresa’s exhausted, cranky, but surprisingly warmhearted husband, who slides in world-weary home truths with effortless aplomb.
- Kerry Reid, Chicago Tribune
- Kerry Reid, Chicago Tribune (Read the full review)
“Director Frances Limoncelli has assembled six incisive actors so attuned to the droll surreality of death’s bullying imposition…that the tiniest shared silences are packed with complex emotions.”
December 9th, 2030
Last fall, Backstage Theatre took a promising but deeply flawed play, Beauty on the Vine, and gave it a vigorous, persuasive production. Now they’ve done the same with Shelagh Stephenson’s 1998 comic drama about three estranged sisters holed up in their childhood home for their mother’s funeral. Director Frances Limoncelli has assembled six incisive actors so attuned to the droll surreality of death’s bullying imposition–mom’s ghost shows up to berate one of her daughters for her monumental ingratitude–that the tiniest shared silences are packed with complex emotions. Stephenson’s often meandering script is equal parts wit, pathos, and tedium, making two hours feel like three even in this sterling cast’s hands. When Backstage starts picking plays as well as they cast them, they’ll be a force to be reckoned with.
- Justin Hayford, Chicago Reader
- Justin Hayford, Chicago Reader (Read the full review)
Cast & Crew

Ron Kuzava
Frank
A native of Detroit Michigan, Ron Kuzava has been acting in Chicago since 2001. An Ensemble member since 2004, Ron has appeared in the following Backstage productions: Terra Nova (Birdy Bowers), Skin of Our Teeth (Announcer), The Ruling Class (Tucker), Bloody Bess (van Anders / Vicar) and The Memory of Water (Frank). Apart from acting, he also served as the Assistant Director for Backstage's production of Zombies from the Beyond. Ron has performed with several other Chicago companies over the years including Signal Ensemble, Theo Ubique, Chopin Theater, WNEP, Wildclaw Theater and Defiant Theater.
Frances Limoncelli
Director
Frances is an ensemble member at Lifeline Theatre where she has directed Simple Jim And His Four Fabulous Friends, The Story Of Ferdinand, Miss Bianca, Half Magic, Cooking with Lard and the Jeff and After Dark award-winning Queen Lucia: A Musical Romp. Acting credits at Lifeline include Pistols For Two, Precious Bane, Pinocchio, Bunnicula and as the title role in Mrs. Piggle Wiggle. Around Chicago she has appeared in Shear Madness at the Blackstone; The House Of Martin Guerre and Cry, The Beloved Country at the Goodman; Master Class at Northlight Theatre; Falsettos at Appletree Theatre; Lifeline’s Pride And Prejudice for Chicago Theatres On The Air to name a few. At Vermont’s Weston Playhouse she has played some of her favorite roles including Mary in Merrily We Roll Along, Emma Goldman in Ragtime, Carrie in Carousel, Fraulien Kost in Cabaret and Mrs. Montgomery in The Heiress. As an adaptor she created The Emperor’s Groovy New Clothes, Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch and the Dorothy L. Sayers mystery series Whose Body?, Strong Poison, Gaudy Night and, coming this spring, Busman’s Honeymoon, all for Lifeine Theatre. A two-time Jeff Award winner for her adaptations, Frances graduated from the Boston Conservatory with a BFA in theatre performance and an emphasis in directing.

Rebekah Ward
Catherine
Rebekah is honored to be an ensemble member with BSTC. Her first production with the company was the title role in the world-premier production Denise Druczweski's Inferno–which garnered the cast and crew Critic's Choice in the Reader and Rebekah an invitation to join BackStage. After that she was delighted to be a part of the Jeff-Recommended adventure, Thornton Wilder's The Skin of Our Teeth, where she received her first Jeff Citation for Principal Actress in a Leading Role as Sabina. Her next production with us was as Charlie in the summer hit Zombies from the Beyond. Rebekah played Edna in BSTC's Jeff-Recommended revival of Clifford Odet's Waiting for Lefty, and Catherine in Shelagh Stephenson's The Memory of Water. In addition to BackStage, she has worked with numerous Chicago theatres, some of which include Court Theatre, Northlight Theater, Remy Bumppo Theatre, Strawdog Theatre, the side project, Serendipity Theatre, and Collaboraction.
Peter Cieply - Mike
Anita Deely - Mary
Franette Liebow - Vi
Adrienne Smith - Teresa